Love and Sex in L.A.
Love and Sex in L.A.a Brenda Venus film
Michael Devorzon
Molinee Green
Terry Moore
Christina Santiago,
Playmate
Kareem
Abdul-Jabbar,
Athlete
Rachael Elizabeth
Barbara Moore,
Playmate
James Curtis
Katie Lohmann,
Playmate
Jennifer Walcott,
Playmate

Love and Sex in L.A.Being a DirectorSex Secrets



LOVE & SEX IN L.A.
 
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Honest, sexy, and dazzling, Love & Sex in L.A. gives us characters who speak from the heart and with boiling passion. It is reality styled film based loosely on Brenda Venus’ books, "Secrets of Seduction." The notion, dreamed up while she was writing a monthly column for Playboy Magazine is both fascinating and whimsical.

And so LSLA (LoveSexLA), conducted with marvelous poignancy by all cast members, is born of truth and passion with high-energy delivery. As they open their hearts and minds to you, they are also discovering their own true feelings... and surprised even themselves.

Venus' voiceover narrates the events as she guides you through topics which include: dating, appearance, communication, reciprocity, cheating, confidence, exploration of the night life in L.A. toys, eroticism, romance, relationship issues, foreplay, oral sex, penetration, the effect of society’s culture on the youth, especially pornography, health, and various forms of fitness training.

Then, of course, trouble shooting when things go wrong, and lack of orgasm in the female.

These are interviews and stories about the lives and loves of some of the people who happen to live in L.A. They also come from many different cultures and nationalities. However, the main characters involved are seven Playboy Playmates who tell all, a few exciting men in L.A., Mr. Universe, and Kareem Abdul-Jabbar.

Most of the cast are either related, good friends, or lovers. A few couples were married after the shoot!

Venus takes you on a mystical journey that ultimately speaks to our own understanding of mortality, desires, truth, love, passions, and possibly fate... yours!

So hang onto your seat-belt, it's going to be a bumpy ride... you'll hear truth like you've never heard before and never will again… high octane, awesome performances, mesmerizing!


BEING A DIRECTOR

I love art, nature, and I love to observe. I see interactions and resolutions from interactions. This is the very reason I wanted to do a film -- to breathe raw, honest, spontaneous expression into a new form of filmmaking! I did not know I had broken all the rules, until a professional filmmaker told me so.

After writing a column for Playboy Magazine and interviewing hundreds of Playmates, I decided to buy a camera, call some of the girls, a few close friends, and began shooting about the subject I knew best: Love & Sex.

Loosely taken from my best-selling books, "Secrets of Seduction", and straight from the hearts of the characters in the film, LSLA became a spontaneous view of reality. They talked and talked... about what they want and don't want in and out of bed....in love, in a relationship, in and life!

The cast was inspired. And they inspired me. Sometimes it's heartbreaking, and sometimes it's humorous. But it's always honest and passionate. However, not only is there a soul connection among the entire family of characters – but also, intellectual and motivational. It makes one think about what is important and what is not – about trust, integrity, loyalty, love and communication.

Some of the cast are related, some are lovers, and some were married after shooting. They wanted to give you, the audience, a memorable moment or two. They wanted to share love lost and love found and some helpful experiences along the way. They wanted to fill your soul with useful treasures to make your life more complete. But most of all, they gave you a precious gift... their time!! They were not paid...!


SEX SECRETS

SEX SECRETS for men: "Unless you have suckled every part of your woman's body, you can't say that you know her completely."

Be yourself. (your best self, of course!) Don't promote yourself. It's smells of insecurity, and that's a turn-off.

Every woman wants a confident man in the bedroom and out of the bedroom. Confidence is key. Confidence is an aphrodisiac.
  1. The best time to meet the opposite sex is while you're doing something that interests you. You're guaranteed to have at least one thing in common.
  2. Hands: Be aware of how you use your hands, especially on the first date. Don't grop, just use them to guide her, gently. Remember she is judging you. She wants to know if you'll be a good lover and a good mate.
  3. Women want cool and detached, yet caring, attentive, thoughtful, and generous.
  4. When you first have sex w/ a woman, go w/ what she's familiar with, rather than introducing her to any new moves in the beginning. You can do that later.
  5. Make a woman feel comfortable before you have sex. Even if your heart's racing, take a deep breath and remember, sex is a dance – you lead, she leads, you are in rhythm, in step, with one another.
  6. A guy who's good in bed, handles a woman like he handles his car. You better know how to drive...she is watching if you're aware, knowledgeable, rhythmic, easy w/ the touch, intuitive, and spontaneous.
  7. When you can handle a woman, you can begin to have fun.
  8. Most all women can cum in the missionary position. You need to know how to work your hips, and have upper body strength to support your weight when on top, so you don't crush her.
  9. Women don't like for you to fumble during insertion of any type, whether the vagina, or putting on a condom. Pay attention, focus: know what you're doing when you're doing it.
  10. Lubrication is communication! Make certain she's adequately lubricated at all times, so you can always come back for more!

SEX SECRETS for women: "Unless you have suckled every part of your man's body, you can't say that you know him completely."

Do not be passive in bed. It's boring, and he will look elsewhere, guaranteed.
  1. Use your breast more. Put a nipple in his mouth, play with them during sex, put his penis between them. Be inventive, spontaneous.
  2. Know anatomy – the different parts of his individual body that are sensual to him. Gently massage the perineum. Don't just work the shaft...his whole package is a feast.
  3. Be open to having sex anywhere at any time. Watch 91/2 WEEKS...it's an old film, but you'll learn a lot.
  4. Shower together. If he's in the shower, then you jump in w/ him, wash him, play w/ him, have sex w/ him.
  5. Listen when he speaks. Don’t text under the table, or stay on your cell. Look directly into his eyes and make a connection from your heart.
  6. Find something you like about his appearance and compliment it. Everyone loves a sincere compliment.
  7. Curiosity is a sign of sincerity. Nothing impresses a man more than strength and sincerity.
  8. It's important to explore w/ your tongue and hands, every part of your man's body. Until then, you can't say that you know him completely.
  9. A good way to insure his attention is to put on a striptease for dessert.
  10. Every woman needs a secret sex drawer, if you don't have one, then start making it. And that consists of sexual toys, lingerie, lubrication, and special bubble baths, massage oils, candles, edible delights, et cetera.
  11. Men have sex with their eyes as much as they do with any other part of their anatomy. Keep your man in a constant state of titillation. Never let him know what you're going to do next. Surprise him!
  12. Let him watch you while you perform mouth congress on his erection. Do it in the light of day or turn the lights on so he can see your expert mouth work his member into quivers of ecstasy.