SEX SECRETS for men


“Unless you have suckled every part of your woman’s body, you can’t say that you know her completely.” Brenda Venus



  1. Be yourself. (your best self, of course!) Don’t promote yourself. It’s smells of insecurity, and that’s a turn-off.

  2. Every woman wants a confident man in the bedroom and out of the bedroom. Confidence is key. Confidence is an aphrodisiac and when you have it, everybody wants a taste.

  3. The best time to meet the opposite sex is while you’re doing something that interests you. You’re guaranteed to have at least one thing in common.

  4. Hands: Be aware of how you use your hands, especially on the first date. Don’t grop, just use them to guide her, gently. Remember she is judging you. She wants to know if you’ll be a good lover and a good mate.

  5. Women want cool and detached, yet caring, attentive, thoughtful, and generous.

  6. When you first have sex w/ a woman, go w/ what she’s familiar with, rather than introducing her to any new moves in the beginning. You can do that later.

  7. Make a woman feel comfortable before you have sex. Even if your heart’s racing, take a deep breath and remember, sex is a dance – you lead, she leads, you are in rhythm, in step, with one another.

  8. A guy who’s good in bed, handles a woman like he handles his car. You better know how to drive…she is watching if you’re aware, knowledgeable, rhythmic, easy w/ the touch, intuitive, and spontaneous.

  9. When you can handle a woman, you can begin to have fun.

  10. Most all women can cum in the missionary position. You need to know how to work your hips, and have upper body strength to support your weight when on top, so you don’t crush her.

  11. Women don’t like for you to fumble during insertion of any type, whether the vagina, or putting on a condom. Pay attention, focus: know what you’re doing when you’re doing it.

  12. Lubrication is communication! Make certain she’s adequately lubricated at all times, so you can always come back for more!


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