VALENTINE’S DAY is just around the corner for all you lovers in the Universe… the simplest things can be the most cherished & adored. It is truly what you can give w/ your creative mind & heart. You don’t need to spend a lot of money. Just think: special & unique.

See this video:  a table set w/ roses or a single ROSE, a bottle of champagne, strawberries, cherries, choices of cheese, a box of chocolates, valentine’s heart candies that have messages written on them, a card w/ sentiments of love in your handwriting, a candle w/ a fresh scent,  a Romantic Comedy film, sexy background music, a nice massage w/ unscented oil,  a nice compliment or two about her/him at an opportune moment. For example:  if you paint, paint her something unique & personal. If you write music, write a song.  If you play piano or any musical instrument play for her.  If there’s a possession of yours that you don’t mind parting with, and you know she would cherish it, present her with that gift.

Use your mind, your heart, your senses… & it’s all FREE. The only thing it costs is your time, which is precious.

Cosmo: What Do Men Find Romantic?

It’s not that guys don’t enjoy the romantic aspects of a relationship. It’s just that they enjoy some more than others — and you may be surprised by what they prefer.

Overrated: Love letters

Underrated: Romantic texts

If a guy sits down to write you an actual love letter, he’s doing it to impress you. If he sends you a text out of nowhere telling you he’s thinking about you, he’s doing it because he can’t help himself.

Overrated: Picnics

Underrated: Cookouts

Eating outside is great. But when given a choice between obtaining their food from an adorable basket or from a flaming grill, guys will always pick the grill.

Overrated: The smell of your perfume

Underrated: The smell of your hair

There’s nothing wrong with the subtle application of the right perfume, but catching a whiff of that clean-yet-flowery girl-hair smell beats any fragrance.

Overrated: Humoring him by watching the game

Underrated: Doing your own thing while he watches the game

If you truly enjoy gorging on hot dogs while watching sports, that’s great. But if you’re doing it solely for his sake, there’s no need to bother — he knows that you’re a girl. And he likes that.

Overrated: Ballroom-dancing lessons

Underrated: Surfing lessons

Most any guy would love being active and learning new things with you. But if he has to worry about his footwork and balance, he’d rather not have to be wearing shimmery shirts while doing it.

Overrated: Bed and breakfasts

Underrated: Any other means of lodging

Breakfast is served from 6:30am to 6:45am, and we get to sit at a communal table with chatty 70-year-olds? How romantic!

Overrated: Valentine’s Day roses

Underrated: Flowers on a random day

V-Day roses require less than no imagination. But surprising you with flowers on a meaningless Tuesday is a sign that he doesn’t need greeting-card companies to tell him when to show you how much he cares.

Overrated: Make-up physical intimacy

Underrated: Not fighting in the first place

He hates arguing with you almost as much as he loves physical intimacy with you. So the make-up isn’t even close to being worth the excruciating pain of the fight that precedes it.

Overrated: Discussing your future house

Underrated: Discussing your future vacation

Contrary to popular belief, single men aren’t afraid to discuss or envision a future together. It’s just that they prefer to focus on certain aspects (relaxing on a beach) rather than others (grouting bathroom tile).

Overrated: Double dates

Underrated: Going to parties together

Double dates are often a little awkward. Seeing an entire party’s worth of guys look jealous when he walks in with you is always totally awesome.

“Unless you have suckled every part of your woman’s body, you can’t say that you know her completely.” Brenda Venus

1. Be yourself. (your best self, of course!) Don’t promote yourself. It’s smells of insecurity, and that’s a turn-off.


2. Every woman wants a confident man in the bedroom and out of the bedroom. Confidence is key. Confidence is an aphrodisiac and when you have it, everybody wants a taste.


3. The best time to meet the opposite sex is while you’re doing something that interests you. You’re guaranteed to have at least one thing in common.


4. Hands: Be aware of how you use your hands, especially on the first date. Don’t grop, just use them to guide her, gently. Remember she is judging you. She wants to know if you’ll be a good lover and a good mate.


5. Women want cool and detached, yet caring, attentive, thoughtful, and generous.


6. When you first have sex w/ a woman, go w/ what she’s familiar with, rather than introducing her to any new moves in the beginning. You can do that later.


7. Make a woman feel comfortable before you have sex. Even if your heart’s racing, take a deep breath and remember, sex is a dance – you lead, she leads, you are in rhythm, in step, with one another.


8. A guy who’s good in bed, handles a woman like he handles his car. You better know how to drive…she is watching if you’re aware, knowledgeable, rhythmic, easy w/ the touch, intuitive, and spontaneous.


9. When you can handle a woman, you can begin to have fun.


10. Most all women can cum in the missionary position. You need to know how to work your hips, and have upper body strength to support your weight when on top, so you don’t crush her.


11. Women don’t like for you to fumble during insertion of any type, whether the vagina, or putting on a condom. Pay attention, focus: know what you’re doing when you’re doing it.


12. Lubrication is communication! Make certain she’s adequately lubricated at all times, so you can always come back for more!